Must have sex toys for unforgettable bondage stories

Bondage can turn up the heat in the bedroom when you’ve hit a sex rut or want to change things up in the bedroom. It can allow you to experience all the excitement of being tied up, spanked, tickled and manipulated, thus experiencing a whole new range of sensations in the bedroom so that you can experience your very own bondage stories.

If you are a beginner in the world of bondage, here is a list of a few sex toys that are key to getting you started

Soft Ropes Marks the Beginning of Great Bondage Stories

The most important thing for bondage is of course, restraints. You may think that you can just use anything to tie up your partner (or for you to be tied up if you prefer) but that’s not always the best idea. You want something safe and sexy that is meant for this type of activity.

Bondage ropes are great because they are soft and silky so they feel great, but they are strong enough to keep someone restrained.

Handcuffs

If you prefer to look a little more hardcore but also more simple, handcuffs are the way to go when it comes to restraints. They are easy enough to put on and carry around (stick them in a bag or purse if you’re traveling or meeting up at a hotel). Police handcuffs, however, are not adequate. They were not made for this kind of activity and should not be worn for long periods of time. Instead, invest in bondage handcuffs!handcuffs

A Feather Tickler

Whenever you hear about good bondage stories, the excitement in them comes from one partner being at the mercy of the other. You may not necessarily want to use whips or paddles on your partner or have them be used on you, but creating different and unexpected sensations may do the trick.

A feather tickler doesn’t hurt, but you can experience different sensations as it is used all over your body.  Alternating between light tickling and a little spanking will drive the restrained person absolutely wild.

A Breathable Gag

Although they can be intimidating, gags are super popular in the BDSM community. Using a breathable gag can go a long way in making you feel safe while still enjoying this kink. The best option is a small, soft, breathable ball gag. Some of them even have training kits with a variety of gag sizes you can practice with.

A Blindfold

When you want to increase the excitement and don’t want your partner to know what you’re doing, a blindfold is essential. You can definitely use something from around your house, but for something comfortable and sexy, you can purchase a blindfold from a sex shop.

A Padded or Fur Lined Paddle

Pain and pleasure are two sides of the same coin in bondage play. For spanking, you can use a padded or fur lined paddle that can actually feel very pleasurable. Start with a few spankings on the butt to get your partner excited

using handcuffs, make sure you have the key very close by and an extra hidden elsewhere.

Whips

You can bring in a little (or a lot) of pain with the use of a whip in the bedroom. Whips vary in size, materials and textures. It’s important to know what kind of stimulation you desire when choosing the right whip for you. If used with any type of force, Thin rubber or thin, stiff leather whips will sting a lot. Softer leather or suede whips will hurt a lot less and are better for beginners or people who don’t need a lot of pain to get off.

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A Safe Word or Gesture is crucial

The key to bondage and any other type of BSDM is that it is done amongst consensual adults. The point is to explore the extremes of pleasure, while still being safe and never losing control. Never engage in this type of sexual activity without first establishing a safe word or safe gesture.

A safe word is one you will say when you want the play to stop immediately. Make sure it is unrelated to your sexual activities and that it’s something you will both remember. In the same way, a safe gesture is something you do in order to have the activity stop immediately. It is especially handy if you can’t talk, like when you are wearing a gag. Make sure it is a clear gesture that cannot be confused with something else you are doing.

It’s important to always honor the safe word or gesture. Whenever a partner uses it, all activity needs to stop, even if both parties are not ready to do so. It’s the only way to ensure mutual respect and safety.

Don’t be afraid to explore the limits of your sexuality. Bondage can be extremely pleasurable and can make your intimate acts become unforgettable experiences that will turn into bondage stories that you and your partner can look back on. With the tools and tips given to you above, you can begin experimenting in the bedroom and take your sex to a whole new level.

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