Everything You Always Wanted To Know About Bondage

There are several reasons why people seek out new ways to enjoy having sex. After they feel intimate and confident about sex, many couples decide to venture into new fantasies and techniques to keep their relationship and sexual life from falling into the rut, or just the curiosity or fantasies they want to have.

The best sexual experiences usually happen when you can use all the senses. However, if you stop using your senses, such as sight or touch for example, it ends up increasing dramatically the other senses, and that is where the practice of Bondage comes in.

What is the practice of Bondage?

Bondage is a type of fetish which basically consists of tying and immobilizing the partner consensually, and may or may not happen with any penetration as a sexual act. Although it is usually related to sadomasochism, this fetish is not necessary a sadomasochistic act, as it can be seen only as a part of a sexual relation in conjunction with other BDSM techniques.

BDSM means Bondage Domination Submission and Masochism and the person who practices it seeks sexual pleasure through the power and submission of the other partner. Avid practitioners claim that with just a few bondage gear and a little creativity, you can have unforgettable erotic encounters.

It is important to make sure that both you and your partner feel comfortable, not everyone would feel comfortable with sexual experiences considered “different” by the wider society.

So, in order to make sure that this is not a problem on the moment, start thinking and fantasizing about the situation by putting yourself in the role of both the submissive and the domineering. Think as self bondage and see how you feel and if you really would be comfortable with the situation. Ask your partner to do the same thing.

During the initial practice period, you can start in a more subtle way as a test. You and your partner could close your eyes during the intention of intercourse, teasing and delaying that crucial moment. Make threats of stopping as soon as she opens her eyes, this gives the feeling of domination and submission. It is a start for the process of bondage and discipline.

rope bondage

Start with a feather

When it comes to practicing Bondage, a tip is to start literally with a feather, instead of a rope bondage, for instance.  It is a lot simpler and easy to use and to control if things get out of hand.

What is most interesting when it comes to bondage sex, the submissive and the dominated one is that one cannot move or fight against the others sexual urges, and the other feels pleasure in his or her power over the other person.

When people are in both conditions, it is a unique opportunity to experience a wide variety of sensual touches using feathers, ice, heat, fabrics like silk, tongue, fingers, bondage toys, etc.

Silk feathers or fabrics become super sensual tools when used in this situation. They please, excite and cause neurotransmitters to go crazy when these objects come in contact with the skin. Being tied up and having a feather or a silk scarf going through your body is something that can be very perverse.

Contrary to what many people think, practicing bondage is not about raping the other person while they are immobilized. The “art” of dominant and domineering play would involve teasing, tickling, licking, sucking and anything else you and your partner had already agreed.

When it comes to experimenting, you can use specific gears such as hogtie, ball gags, blindfold, handcuffs, whip, bondage tape. Not only male female sexy, but also lesbian bondage could benefit from these tools.

Be safe and be happy when practicing bondage

Anyone can practice Bondage. Associated with BDSM, it is very pleasurable for those who like to play with domination and submission. However, since it is a matter of immobilizing our partner with erotic moorings, it is very important to follow some guidelines and get some advice to avoid inconvenient incidents that could endanger your health.

Although Bondage can range from the innocent use of handcuffs to much more elaborate and complex erotic bondage ropes, no matter what is the case, safety is always important, as we are leaving the other person immobilized, which can be complicated in a case of emergency.

The first recommendation is that when fastenings are made with handcuffs, always have the keys handy, to use them quickly in case of an emergency. Never put them away, hide or throw them on the ground since you do not know if you need to use them in a hurry. The same applies when dealing with any other restrictive tool.

The sexual practice of Bondage is directly related to domination, which sometimes causes us to forget about security. No matter how much pleasure you have in mastering your partner, never leave a person tied up alone in a room, because in the face of an emergency he will be unable to react. This point is critical if you want to practice Bondage safely.

Oral sex during the bondage practice

The tongue is something incredible that can bring wonderful sensations when used on the neck, ear, face, chest, and mouth and of course the clitoris or the penis. When the person assumes the role of dominant, it is essential that he or she use the tongue to arouse feelings in the partner. Kissing, licking and sucking the submissive is a necessity.

When oral sex occurs during the practice of this technique, the submissive feels vulnerable and powerless to stop the sensation of pleasure, and that is something excellent. To further spice up oral sex, a person may use gels that suddenly warm up, for example, or ice.

Blindfold bondage

One of the ways to sharpen the partner’s sense is by obscuring his or her vision.  When the person ceases to make use one of her sense, it ends up sharpening the others.

The use of blindfold is something simple and very practical during a bondage session, because the dominated will not be able to see anything that the dominant will be doing by his or her side.

Bondage toys

One of the things that makes the dominant very happy is to feel powerful in creating new forms of pleasure for the partner, and often they use erotic toys to achieve this. Most of the bondage toys toy makes some kind of noise when they are connected, and when the submissive listens to this “buzzing” he begins to feel a certain emotion and anguish in advance, which is extremely apparent to the dominant.

Hogtie bondage

Hogtie the partner is a bondage classic position; this leaves him or her totally immobilized and completely in the hands of the dominant, however it is important to take some care to make him or her feel comfortable and also enjoying the moment.

Make sure that he or she will be in a comfortable position, and never use threads or string, as they cut the skin, and can cause serious damage.

The most advisable are products manufactured especially for this type of situation, or a polyester bondage rope, which can be found in specialized sites such as ours. Another idea is to wear scarves, including silk or satin, which have a soft touch.

Apply simple knots so that when it comes to releasing the partner they leave with ease, and remember to change their  position every half hour, and do not tight the ropes to avoid circulation problems.

Never exceed the limit of pain allowed, and do not forget that both should experience pleasure! Remember to take all the necessary precautions so that you and your partner can have maximum pleasure and minimal discomfort during bondage practice!

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